Dear jaggertravel,
Thank you for taking your time and shared your experience with us.
From my understanding, our ground and hotel was delightful and I'm glad that you enjoyed the atmosphere.
It's correct that we don't recommend self park because of the steep hill and far walk parking lot.
But we have complimentary valet that will carefully take your car and bring back to you at the front entrance.
At Sankara Spa, we do have separate male and female bathtubs for guests' privacy but we do have a join specious Relaxation Lounge for male and female guests to enjoy in our sanctuary spa.
Best regards,
Alison, Maitre D'Hotel.